Sharmila Dhankar's Inspiring Journey to Commonwealth Gold

A Historic Achievement

Sharmila Dhankar's remarkable gold medal win at the 2026 Commonwealth Games transcends mere athletic success; it embodies years of perseverance, sacrifice, and relentless spirit. With a season-best throw of 9.81 meters, she made history in Glasgow by clinching the women's F57 shot put title, marking her as India's first para athletics gold medallist at the Commonwealth Games. Yet, this achievement is intertwined with a profound personal narrative of overcoming societal stigma, poverty, and personal hardships. In an exclusive interview, Dhankar shared the obstacles that shaped her path and emphasized the significance of her victory as a powerful message for daughters everywhere.

Overcoming Adversity

'I Was Thrown Out Because I Had Daughters'

Dhankar revealed that her journey to success was paved with personal challenges. Growing up in poverty, she faced significant struggles, including leaving her first marriage after having daughters instead of sons. After enduring six years at her parents' home, she found support from her second husband, who encouraged her athletic dreams. "From childhood until now, life has been a series of challenges. There was poverty, then marriage, but it didn’t work out. After giving birth to daughters, I was cast out for not having a son. I spent six years at my parents' house before starting anew," she recounted.

A Powerful Message

A 'Golden' Statement

For Dhankar, her gold medal serves as a powerful rebuttal to those who undervalue daughters. "This medal is my response to those who don’t appreciate daughters. If girls receive even minimal support, they can surpass boys in achievements," she stated. She believes that changing perceptions about daughters begins at home. "People often say 'Save the Daughter, Educate the Daughter,' but not everyone genuinely believes it. Daughters are equal to sons. If every mother supports her daughter as mine did, success becomes attainable in any field," she added.

A Tribute to Her Mother

A Mother's Sacrifice Behind The Medal

Reflecting on the importance of her gold medal for her future, Dhankar expressed deep gratitude towards her mother, who stood by her during her toughest times. "My mother sacrificed everything for me. She even sold land and faced societal ridicule to support my journey. Now, I aim to rebuild our lives, purchase land again, and secure my children's future," she shared. Dhankar believes that winning India's first gold medal in para athletics at the Commonwealth Games could transform not only her career but also her family's future.

Inspiring the Next Generation

'Next Commonwealth, We'll Win Three Gold Medals'

One of the most touching moments for Dhankar was hearing her daughters' reactions to her victory. They are already envisioning a future where they create history together, not just celebrating one medal. "My daughters told me, 'At the next Commonwealth Games, all three of us will win gold medals together,'" she said with a smile. This statement highlights how Dhankar's triumph has inspired the next generation in her family.