Avoid These 5 Gifts This Christmas to Keep Relationships Strong

As the festive season approaches, the excitement of Secret Santa gifting is in the air. However, it's essential to choose gifts wisely to avoid potential relationship pitfalls. This article highlights five items to steer clear of, including sharp objects, handkerchiefs, and religious idols, based on traditional beliefs and Vastu principles. Instead, consider thoughtful gifts that the recipient will cherish, ensuring your gesture strengthens your bond. Read on to learn more about the dos and don'ts of holiday gifting.

By Narendra Chaudhary Dec 24, 2025, 12:01 IST

The Gift-Giving Dilemma This Christmas

As Christmas approaches, the thrill of being a 'Secret Santa' is palpable among colleagues and friends. Everyone aims to select a gift that stands out and brings joy to the recipient. However, amidst this festive spirit, it's crucial to remember that every gift carries its own significance and can impact relationships. Certain gifts may inadvertently cause discomfort or strain in connections.

If you're planning to play 'Santa' this year, here are five items you should definitely exclude from your gift list:

1. Sharp Objects (Knives or Scissors)
According to Vastu Shastra and traditional beliefs, gifting sharp items like knives or scissors is discouraged. Such gifts are thought to foster negativity and could lead to a rift between the giver and receiver. Even if it’s an elegant kitchen knife set, it’s best to steer clear of it for Secret Santa.

2. Handkerchiefs and Perfumes
This may come as a surprise, but in astrology and Vastu, gifting a handkerchief symbolizes sorrow. Similarly, giving perfumes is believed to imply that as the scent fades, so might the sweetness of the relationship, which in some cultures is linked to separation.

3. Shoes
While gifting shoes might seem common, it is often viewed as inauspicious. It is said that such gifts can lead to increased struggles in the recipient's life and may symbolize a growing distance between you and them.

4. Watches
Although watches are classic gifts, many associate them with the idea of time standing still or bringing misfortune. In both Chinese culture and certain Indian beliefs, gifting a watch is seen as a hindrance to one's progress.

5. Religious Idols
While gifting a religious idol may seem sacred, doing so during a casual event like Secret Santa can be problematic. If the recipient fails to care for the idol properly, it could reflect poorly on you.

Choosing the Right Gift
Opt for gifts that the recipient will genuinely appreciate, such as a diary, an engaging book, indoor plants, or a personalized coffee mug. Since your emotions are tied to the gift, selecting it thoughtfully is essential to maintain a strong bond.